Friendship – a Quote

    

“I find that to keep friendships alive one has to take pains to remind the people you care about that you’re thinking of them and they are important to you.  To me that means I need to mail that note or make the phone call.   I’ve concluded that such attentiveness and deliberateness are indeed […]

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Telling My Everyday Stories

    

In one of the blog posts, I talked about how common for people unable to get passed the binary thinking system.  This system makes people to only search for a clear YES or NO answer for a problem. Eventually, we will know about our options.  But before getting there, how you interpret and give meaning […]

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50 Shades of Gray

    

Who holds most of your secrets? Unconsciously, I used to share most of my struggles, usually relationships related, to my nail technician, the waxing lady and the hair stylist. For unknown reasons, I had this unexplainable trust on them and poured out all big and small love stories. You probably can relate to my experience! […]

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3 Dating Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Relationship Success – Part 3 of 3

    

My dear college friend, Bebe, never realized how she was filtering potential suitors based on their physical appearance. “Do you notice how you always ask me the same question,” I asked Bebe, “about whether each of my previous boyfriends was handsome or not?” She said No. But clearly she was vetting suitors based on some […]

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3 Dating Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Relationship Success – Part 2 of 3

    

At the beginning of a Relationship Coaching program/course, I take time to listen to the reality set in front of the coachees, who may be single or already in a relationship (girlfriends, wives).  Once the biggest challenges standing between you and your relationship are identified, you will be able to see where the gaps are […]

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3 Dating Myths That Are Sabotaging Your Relationship Success – Part 1 of 3

    

As a relationship coach, one of the first questions I asked my coachees is:   “What do you see as your biggest relationship challenge?”   Of course, it’s easy to talk about all the external reasons why we are not yet enjoying a relationship that we honor. It takes so much courage to recognize the internal reasons, […]

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